Ah, good question, I'm really not too sure. However, if you are interested in the topic, according to what I've studied thus far ( so do your own studying and take what I say with a grain of salt) it seems that while God does know who's going to end up with who and does have influence on their lives which can bring them into the same social circles and can reveal things about each other and perhaps even their soften hearts. But it's not usually a magical-like thing where they'll both just suddenly know each other is ""the one"". Ultimately love is a choice, so the only way they end up together is if they make the choice to choose each other. So yes God will bring a person's future husband or wife into their life and guide them to make the right decision. But the person isn't going to know for sure this person is the one they'll date and marry until they actually date and marry them. And this is what makes the answer to that question so tricky because everyone's story is going to be different and we all grow and learn at different rates and experience things in different ways so how one person may find their future spouse is going to be extremely different from another's persons story and thus you'll probably get some conflicting answers to that question.
It kind of makes it just a random sentiment, no? How would one know that God doesn't want to people to marry...?
It's hard to say. I'm sure there's a way to know, probably a case by case basis I would imagine. But yeah, those are really good questions. I wish this was the place for it because that can lead you into some interesting discussions.
It kind of makes it just a random sentiment, no? How would one know that God doesn't want two people to marry...?
OOC: @ ninjagofanmam I feel like there is a moment when you see someone and it is just... different, and it is a bit like magic but maybe that's just my romantic side. (And pro doesn't happen all the time) =P As for what you said Yis I feel like people typically find that out by either having an experience where they ask God and hear Him say 'no not that one' (I have had this happen to me) or they date and then end-up realising that it just.. doesn't work.
With feelings it's always difficult to know for sure. Sometimes they are helpful, and other times not. Yeah, true.
Ah, good question, I'm really not too sure. However, if you are interested in the topic, according to what I've studied thus far ( so do your own studying and take what I say with a grain of salt) it seems that while God does know who's going to end up with who and does have influence on their lives which can bring them into the same social circles and can reveal things about each other and perhaps even their soften hearts. But it's not usually a magical-like thing where they'll both just suddenly know each other is ""the one"". Ultimately love is a choice, so the only way they end up together is if they make the choice to choose each other. So yes God will bring a person's future husband or wife into their life and guide them to make the right decision. But the person isn't going to know for sure this person is the one they'll date and marry until they actually date and marry them. And this is what makes the answer to that question so tricky because everyone's story is going to be different and we all grow and learn at different rates and experience things in different ways so how one person may find their future spouse is going to be extremely different from another's persons story and thus you'll probably get some conflicting answers to that question.
Ye'll ne'er recognize the man God haes fur ye if ye dinnae foremaist ken God. God could pat him right fernent ye an' ye'll pass him up fur God's nae whit yore focused oan, sae howfur could ye possibly see whit He haes fur ye? God wull ne'er bring ye the perfect spouse, fur ye are nae the perfect spouse. Watch this; ye huv tae wirk tae mak' yersell a better person if ye'll want a tae mairie a better person. Ye huv tae devote yersell tae God tae fin' an' mairie a jimmy who devotes his-sel' tae God, that ye might devote yersells tae God togither, an' in sae daein' graw closer tae each ither. We wale tae settle oan this or that person based oan oor selfish selves, nae oan whit God haes fur us. Bit God kin wirk oor poor choices tae decide intae miracles if we hawp in Him. The Bible says: "And we ken that all 'hings wirk togither fur good tae they who loue God, tae they who are called accordin' tae His purpose." Ah wid say that as lang as yer baith willing tae graw togither in Christ, then even a wrong man wull be the right man.
I agree, 100%. Honestly that's exactly what I've been learning and trying to do, be better.
OOC: @ ninjagofanmam I feel like there is a moment when you see someone and it is just... different, and it is a bit like magic but maybe that's just my romantic side. (And pro doesn't happen all the time) =P As for what you said Yis I feel like people typically find that out by either having an experience where they ask God and hear Him say 'no not that one' (I have had this happen to me) or they date and then end-up realising that it just.. doesn't work.
With feelings it's always difficult to know for sure. Sometimes they are helpful, and other times not. Yeah, true.
OOC: Yeah, that's fair. You kind of just have to do your best. =P
Eh...they're just supplements if you're not getting enough nutrients from the food you're eating...
Oh, right *Pretends I don't have dark patches under my eyes* Heh heh
I'd say that's more due to a lack of sleep...please get more...also, I was talking with some friends and we were really confused why everyone treats bags under the eyes so harshly...some people apparently rock them believe it or not...
*Eve manages to knock out the main one, causing them all to retreat back into his body. But the protective barrier protects Azrael as a teleporting little girl tries to kick him.* "Th-they started it! I swear!"
OOC: Guys could we start a new definitive thread? This is getting kinda confusing...
*She watches as Eve tries talking to the little girl. She's still very fight or flight mode*
OOC: Yes. I'm not sure what that means, can you explane to me in slightly diferent wording? It is a bit confusing and I'd be glad to sort things out.
*The little girl glares angrily at Eve.* "First you told me you were too injured to fight, and then you beat up my brother! Yaaa!!" *She throws a glowing midnight blue fist at Eve's jaw.*
OOC: I just was getting confused with the 4 or what-not threads we had going for the same scene And sorry I missed this
*She watches as Eve tries talking to the little girl. She's still very fight or flight mode*
OOC: Yes. I'm not sure what that means, can you explane to me in slightly diferent wording? It is a bit confusing and I'd be glad to sort things out.
*The little girl glares angrily at Eve.* "First you told me you were too injured to fight, and then you beat up my brother! Yaaa!!" *She throws a glowing midnight blue fist at Eve's jaw.*
OOC: I just was getting confused with the 4 or what-not threads we had going for the same scene And sorry I missed this
*Reacting out of instinct rather than using her brain. She grabs the girl with her power and tosses her down the hall bowling over several other kids in the proses and ending with the girl hitting her head solidly on the wall, knocking her out.*
OOC: Yeah... It is a bit crazy. I'm good with trying to organize it a bit. Don't worry bout it XP Also, I think the consensus was to calm things down for a bit, that's why I had Ravin knock out the kid. If anyone objects to this move, then we can void it. =p
Oh, right *Pretends I don't have dark patches under my eyes* Heh heh
I'd say that's more due to a lack of sleep...please get more...also, I was talking with some friends and we were really confused why everyone treats bags under the eyes so harshly...some people apparently rock them believe it or not...
Hmm that's weird... I get more sleep than most people... it might be more because my brain is super active until I'm asleep (I'll ask my mom but I doubt she'll let me sleep in every day ) Um... what?