Unless it suddelny translates to dollar signs, I don't think they ever will. Just rambling and roving and arguing points you don't actually believe.XD Yes, yes it went that far a lot of the times. A lot of a lot. I was even more a mess of a human being than I am now, if you can believe it!
That sounds about right. Lol, mainly I just get kind of lonely if that makes sense so I start talking a lot as a cope I suppose. XD Oh, well I hope the filters been worked on a bit. But I don't think you're any more of a mess than most humans, in fact you're prob better off than some cause you actually admit your faults and work to improve.
That does make sense, yeah...Well humans are social creatures, we need to socialize -family, friends, other. I think the ammount of socialisation needed perhaps varies by personal preference; and there is great value in having time to yourself. Talking is a prominant coping mechanism. I think a lot of the time, and I'm not saying this the case for you, we can't handle silence very well because it leaves us alone with our thoughts, which tends to be uncomfortable. XD Yeah, a little bit. I know, I just have a lot of people who're more than willing to point out my shortcommings than most, I suppose. So they tell me.
I do have a cowboy hat. But I don't like to where it cause it was a gift from my brother, and I don't want it broke. XP Aviators are the bomb
Oh is it felt? I feel like it takes a lot to break a cowboy hat, what do you do that that's a concern? XP *Distant rimshot* Yes, they're my favorite style
It's not felt, I don't particularly like the felt ones cause every single speck of dust clings to them. Nothing to drastic, I'm just worried that it would fall off and get dirty, not to mention I don't know if I look good in a cowboy hat anyhow. XP *Looks off in the direction of the drums* Huh, neighbours must be practising again... Ikr they are the best!
That sounds about right. Lol, mainly I just get kind of lonely if that makes sense so I start talking a lot as a cope I suppose. XD Oh, well I hope the filters been worked on a bit. But I don't think you're any more of a mess than most humans, in fact you're prob better off than some cause you actually admit your faults and work to improve.
That does make sense, yeah...Well humans are social creatures, we need to socialize -family, friends, other. I think the ammount of socialisation needed perhaps varies by personal preference; and there is great value in having time to yourself. Talking is a prominant coping mechanism. I think a lot of the time, and I'm not saying this the case for you, we can't handle silence very well because it leaves us alone with our thoughts, which tends to be uncomfortable. XD Yeah, a little bit. I know, I just have a lot of people who're more than willing to point out my shortcommings than most, I suppose. So they tell me.
Yeah, that's true enough. I think it'ed prob help to just get with my friends more but I know that the're busy so, random internet people here I come! XD Yeah it really dose vary from person to person. I love time by myself too but like you said everyone needs some human contact. Are you an introvert? Well I hope they're not pointing it out in a rude way! It's not bad to have friends that point out your faults as long as it's in a loving way I suppose.
Oh is it felt? I feel like it takes a lot to break a cowboy hat, what do you do that that's a concern? XP *Distant rimshot* Yes, they're my favorite style
It's not felt, I don't particularly like the felt ones cause every single speck of dust clings to them. Nothing to drastic, I'm just worried that it would fall off and get dirty, not to mention I don't know if I look good in a cowboy hat anyhow. XP *Looks off in the direction of the drums* Huh, neighbours must be practising again... Ikr they are the best!
Yeah you've got to take care of them. Oh, well depending on the hat, dirt might give it character. You're probably fine.XP Paired with a leather jacket and you look like you know what you're doing
That does make sense, yeah...Well humans are social creatures, we need to socialize -family, friends, other. I think the ammount of socialisation needed perhaps varies by personal preference; and there is great value in having time to yourself. Talking is a prominant coping mechanism. I think a lot of the time, and I'm not saying this the case for you, we can't handle silence very well because it leaves us alone with our thoughts, which tends to be uncomfortable. XD Yeah, a little bit. I know, I just have a lot of people who're more than willing to point out my shortcommings than most, I suppose. So they tell me.
Yeah, that's true enough. I think it'ed prob help to just get with my friends more but I know that the're busy so, random internet people here I come! XD Yeah it really dose vary from person to person. I love time by myself too but like you said everyone needs some human contact. Are you an introvert? Well I hope they're not pointing it out in a rude way! It's not bad to have friends that point out your faults as long as it's in a loving way I suppose.
Yeah it's kinda stressful when you realize that if you want to hang with your friends, you're the one who has to organize it. Yes, there's always someone on the interwebs.XD I think sometimes we can convince ourselves that we don't need any, much to our own detriment. Yeah, that's true enough. Well, yes, but actually, no. Because I know that social skills are learned traits, no one's born with them. Maybe that extrovert got a head start on you because he had extroverted role models, and so subconciously picked things up as he matured, and maybe you had introverted role models and did likewise. Whatever the case it's never too late to learn anything, and that especially goes for social skills as you'll most likely need those to learn other stuff. I see my own personal introversion as an excuse, a self sabotage holding me back from growing into a better me. But in the same breath, I still let it hold me backat times, maybe because of the damage it's done on my self-confidence. It is almost exclusivly in a rude way, meant to mar my reputation and otherwise put me down in hopes that it lifts them up somehow. Yes, I'd rather have five or six of those friends than a world of the other people.
It's not felt, I don't particularly like the felt ones cause every single speck of dust clings to them. Nothing to drastic, I'm just worried that it would fall off and get dirty, not to mention I don't know if I look good in a cowboy hat anyhow. XP *Looks off in the direction of the drums* Huh, neighbours must be practising again... Ikr they are the best!
Yeah you've got to take care of them. Oh, well depending on the hat, dirt might give it character. You're probably fine.XP Paired with a leather jacket and you look like you know what you're doing
Indeed. I sposse that's true enough. XD Ye prob, XP Yes! Do you have a leather jacket?
Yeah, that's true enough. I think it'ed prob help to just get with my friends more but I know that the're busy so, random internet people here I come! XD Yeah it really dose vary from person to person. I love time by myself too but like you said everyone needs some human contact. Are you an introvert? Well I hope they're not pointing it out in a rude way! It's not bad to have friends that point out your faults as long as it's in a loving way I suppose.
Yeah it's kinda stressful when you realize that if you want to hang with your friends, you're the one who has to organize it. Yes, there's always someone on the interwebs.XD I think sometimes we can convince ourselves that we don't need any, much to our own detriment. Yeah, that's true enough. Well, yes, but actually, no. Because I know that social skills are learned traits, no one's born with them. Maybe that extrovert got a head start on you because he had extroverted role models, and so subconciously picked things up as he matured, and maybe you had introverted role models and did likewise. Whatever the case it's never too late to learn anything, and that especially goes for social skills as you'll most likely need those to learn other stuff. I see my own personal introversion as an excuse, a self sabotage holding me back from growing into a better me. But in the same breath, I still let it hold me backat times, maybe because of the damage it's done on my self-confidence. It is almost exclusivly in a rude way, meant to mar my reputation and otherwise put me down in hopes that it lifts them up somehow. Yes, I'd rather have five or six of those friends than a world of the other people.
That's the truth! I don't like decisions but friend time is worth making them. Yeah! Fallback plan. XD Yes you are correct. I did that and now I have to undo all the habits and try to fix all the isolation I created *smh* You ever done that? That makes sense. Being an introvert imo should just mean that you need rest after human interaction (unlike the extrovert that gets more energy while around people) but it doesn't have to mean that one is bad at interacting. I think that you're right it's something to hide behind, typically in a self-preserving way. But it just makes for lonely, and afraid people. Introverts can be good at interacting, they just have to practice and make sure to have time to rest. Then why do you hang out with them, if they're just ripping you down? It's not a healthy thing to hang out with rude people (not trying to knock the people you hang out with but it seems like the truth to me) I would be happy to try and be a better alternative than people that tear you down if you want?
Yeah you've got to take care of them. Oh, well depending on the hat, dirt might give it character. You're probably fine.XP Paired with a leather jacket and you look like you know what you're doing
Indeed. I sposse that's true enough. XD Ye prob, XP Yes! Do you have a leather jacket?
XP Yes, yes I do. I wear it everywhere, especially in fall/winter
Yeah it's kinda stressful when you realize that if you want to hang with your friends, you're the one who has to organize it. Yes, there's always someone on the interwebs.XD I think sometimes we can convince ourselves that we don't need any, much to our own detriment. Yeah, that's true enough. Well, yes, but actually, no. Because I know that social skills are learned traits, no one's born with them. Maybe that extrovert got a head start on you because he had extroverted role models, and so subconciously picked things up as he matured, and maybe you had introverted role models and did likewise. Whatever the case it's never too late to learn anything, and that especially goes for social skills as you'll most likely need those to learn other stuff. I see my own personal introversion as an excuse, a self sabotage holding me back from growing into a better me. But in the same breath, I still let it hold me backat times, maybe because of the damage it's done on my self-confidence. It is almost exclusivly in a rude way, meant to mar my reputation and otherwise put me down in hopes that it lifts them up somehow. Yes, I'd rather have five or six of those friends than a world of the other people.
That's the truth! I don't like decisions but friend time is worth making them. Yeah! Fallback plan. XD Yes you are correct. I did that and now I have to undo all the habits and try to fix all the isolation I created *smh* You ever done that? That makes sense. Being an introvert imo should just mean that you need rest after human interaction (unlike the extrovert that gets more energy while around people) but it doesn't have to mean that one is bad at interacting. I think that you're right it's something to hide behind, typically in a self-preserving way. But it just makes for lonely, and afraid people. Introverts can be good at interacting, they just have to practice and make sure to have time to rest. Then why do you hang out with them, if they're just ripping you down? It's not a healthy thing to hang out with rude people (not trying to knock the people you hang out with but it seems like the truth to me) I would be happy to try and be a better alternative than people that tear you down if you want?
Yeah, most of the time. I can't even argue with that I'm online a lot myself, especially recently.XD Yes, or lockdown habits. I used to be fairly good at socialising and now I'm basically back at square one. That's fair. I think we can change that. Because it's our body, which is essentially the entirity of things we have control over, at least to begin with. I think we can train ourselves to get energy from social interactions. I mean, we get energy talking to our favorite people, so whose to say we can't expand those horizons? Right it's a survival instinct maybe a lot of the time. Don't forget paranoid and cynical. I agree. Uuuh, because they're my family?... The ones that aren't don't talk to me any more. On that note, you're already doing a good job.
That's the truth! I don't like decisions but friend time is worth making them. Yeah! Fallback plan. XD Yes you are correct. I did that and now I have to undo all the habits and try to fix all the isolation I created *smh* You ever done that? That makes sense. Being an introvert imo should just mean that you need rest after human interaction (unlike the extrovert that gets more energy while around people) but it doesn't have to mean that one is bad at interacting. I think that you're right it's something to hide behind, typically in a self-preserving way. But it just makes for lonely, and afraid people. Introverts can be good at interacting, they just have to practice and make sure to have time to rest. Then why do you hang out with them, if they're just ripping you down? It's not a healthy thing to hang out with rude people (not trying to knock the people you hang out with but it seems like the truth to me) I would be happy to try and be a better alternative than people that tear you down if you want?
Yeah, most of the time. I can't even argue with that I'm online a lot myself, especially recently.XD Yes, or lockdown habits. I used to be fairly good at socialising and now I'm basically back at square one. That's fair. I think we can change that. Because it's our body, which is essentially the entirity of things we have control over, at least to begin with. I think we can train ourselves to get energy from social interactions. I mean, we get energy talking to our favorite people, so whose to say we can't expand those horizons? Right it's a survival instinct maybe a lot of the time. Don't forget paranoid and cynical. I agree. Uuuh, because they're my family?... The ones that aren't don't talk to me any more. On that note, you're already doing a good job.
I think a lot of kids are now days. XD Ye. Oh! That sucks! Hope you bet plenty of chances to get back to being a pro It just takes practice like you say. I don't know about that... tho now that I think about it, some people do switch from introvert to extrovert.... Huh... "Is it possible to learn this power?" Paranoia is always an interesting dance partner XD Oh.... Um... well that actually makes it worse. Um... So.. yeah. Have you tried telling them you don't like that interaction style? Oh thanks! That's the best praise for me! Knowing I'm being a good friend.
Yeah, most of the time. I can't even argue with that I'm online a lot myself, especially recently.XD Yes, or lockdown habits. I used to be fairly good at socialising and now I'm basically back at square one. That's fair. I think we can change that. Because it's our body, which is essentially the entirity of things we have control over, at least to begin with. I think we can train ourselves to get energy from social interactions. I mean, we get energy talking to our favorite people, so whose to say we can't expand those horizons? Right it's a survival instinct maybe a lot of the time. Don't forget paranoid and cynical. I agree. Uuuh, because they're my family?... The ones that aren't don't talk to me any more. On that note, you're already doing a good job.
I think a lot of kids are now days. XD Ye. Oh! That sucks! Hope you bet plenty of chances to get back to being a pro It just takes practice like you say. I don't know about that... tho now that I think about it, some people do switch from introvert to extrovert.... Huh... "Is it possible to learn this power?" Paranoia is always an interesting dance partner XD Oh.... Um... well that actually makes it worse. Um... So.. yeah. Have you tried telling them you don't like that interaction style? Oh thanks! That's the best praise for me! Knowing I'm being a good friend.
Fair enough.XD Ahaha, me too Yay practice. Well, it's up to us to be the healthiest versions of ourselves, no one can do that for us, and being as healthy as you can be will obviously cure things that your weaker form simply didn't have the resources to fight off. So you don't have anyone you like more than anyone else in the whole wide world? Someone you could just spill your guts to without a care? Not even one of your parents?... It's not switching, they're called ambiverts. They're in the middle. I think it is. Yeah it is, I don't quite know how to shake 'em yet myself. XD Eh, it's not immediate family anymore. They're like the hecklers from the muppets, all you can do is take it in stride and prove them wrong be being a good person. No, I much prefer the eventual looks of consternation when who they're telling about me gets to know me better and realizes their lies, so they come to me and tell me I made them look bad to so-and-so. Well... Yeah.
I think a lot of kids are now days. XD Ye. Oh! That sucks! Hope you bet plenty of chances to get back to being a pro It just takes practice like you say. I don't know about that... tho now that I think about it, some people do switch from introvert to extrovert.... Huh... "Is it possible to learn this power?" Paranoia is always an interesting dance partner XD Oh.... Um... well that actually makes it worse. Um... So.. yeah. Have you tried telling them you don't like that interaction style? Oh thanks! That's the best praise for me! Knowing I'm being a good friend.
Fair enough.XD Ahaha, me too Yay practice. Well, it's up to us to be the healthiest versions of ourselves, no one can do that for us, and being as healthy as you can be will obviously cure things that your weaker form simply didn't have the resources to fight off. So you don't have anyone you like more than anyone else in the whole wide world? Someone you could just spill your guts to without a care? Not even one of your parents?... It's not switching, they're called ambiverts. They're in the middle. I think it is. Yeah it is, I don't quite know how to shake 'em yet myself. XD Eh, it's not immediate family anymore. They're like the hecklers from the muppets, all you can do is take it in stride and prove them wrong be being a good person. No, I much prefer the eventual looks of consternation when who they're telling about me gets to know me better and realizes their lies, so they come to me and tell me I made them look bad to so-and-so. Well... Yeah.
XD *Gets just a little confused reading this* Uh yes,, I think. XP I have a few people, I suppose, that I like more that others. But no friends that I share everything with, I'm kind of saving most that stuff for whoever I fall in love with in some distant if at all future XD but as far as spilling my guts to people, I only spill everything to God really. My mom has been so good to me too tho, she listens and understands and helps me, I love her so much! And I know there's nothing I could do that would break my families love for me, even if there are somethings that are personal and I only tell God, that's just life not everything needs to be shared XD that doesn't mean I don't trust my family. Why do you ask? Hbu? My sister Essa Kryze is an Ambivert. It's a strange breed XD Well, that's an interesting situation you got there. But maybe they shouldn't lie bout you then all there problems would be solved.... serves them right to be proven wrong.
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Just rambling and roving and arguing points you don't actually believe.XD Yes, yes it went that far a lot of the times. A lot of a lot. I was even more a mess of a human being than I am now, if you can believe it! 
I think the ammount of socialisation needed perhaps varies by personal preference; and there is great value in having time to yourself. Talking is a prominant coping mechanism. I think a lot of the time, and I'm not saying this the case for you, we can't handle silence very well because it leaves us alone with our thoughts, which tends to be uncomfortable. XD Yeah, a little bit. I know, I just have a lot of people who're more than willing to point out my shortcommings than most, I suppose. So they tell me. 
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